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Love and Social Media 4 Instagram rules for couples

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The Internet has come such a long way that it is now a [beautiful] influence on just every aspect of life. Of course, that means the Internet, especially Social Media, has been used to some amazing effects in relationships, marriages and the dating game in general. While your  actual  relationship in real life is very important, the social media part of your relationship is important too. Of course, one of the coolest social media platforms of the moment is Instagram which provides you the opportunity to share the cutest pictures from dates, hangouts and other moments shared with bae or boo. So, what are some of the rules guiding couples on Instagram?

Remember when love letters used to be the real deal?

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Long before chats on Facebook, BBM and Whatsapp, before sliding into DMs became a trend, Nigerian guys have always gotten babes to fall head-over-heels in love with them. From the classrooms of  King's College  to the dorms of  Queen's college ; from the hostels of  Obafemi Awolowo University  to the academic areas in  UNILAG  and  UNIBEN , guys were perfecting and using a certain technique to get the prettiest girls falling for them. Today, we throwback to those days in the '80s and 90s when using letters to  toast  babes was the coolest way to go about getting them falling in love with you.

Relationship Talk When does cheating become unacceptable?

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In a general sense, cheating has been said to involve relating with others in such a manner that leaves your partner betrayed and in some instances, rejected as well. It needs to be stated here that people react to cheating in different manners. While seeing a partner with another woman at a restaurant could be seen as cheating to one person, that partner would need to be caught embracing or kissing that woman before it is classified as cheating by another person.

For Couples How to enjoy more than 65 years of marriage

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Dolly and Stan Izatt have been married since in 1947 when they were both 19 and 21 respectively. The lovely, longstanding  couple reach 70 years of matrimony this week, and look back on a memorable seven decades of marriage.

This couple's pre-wedding photos will make your day

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An adorable Nigerian couple have shared their delightful pre-wedding pictures along with their incredible love story that will inspire many others to find their soulmates. The couple's love is deeply rooted in God The bride-to-be shrare their story on Nairaland saying : "It all started in the year 2009, when I went to register at a computer institute. A week after I started, he came to introduce himself as our instructor. That was the first time I saw him and please don’t think I will say it was love at first sight cos it wasn’t but I just admired him because he was cute and friendly." "Fast forward to December 2009, On the day of our end of the year party while I was dancing with my friends, he just walked up to me and asked if we could dance together. Initially I refused, but later went to dance with him" This couple's love story will make you pray for a soul mate (photos) " I remember we were dancing to D’banj’s Fall in Love when...

How your relationship is positively affected by longer foreplay

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For Men Engaging in better, longer foreplay with your partner might hold be key to unlocking greater joy in your relationship. That much was made obvious when majority of female voters on a Pulse Poll voted that better foreplay  is  the topmost romantic thing they would have their partners  improve on. And there are merits to this request - an improved, more and adventurous and satisfactory sex life, and by extension, a better relationship. Here are three great advantages of engaging in better foreplay in your relationship/marriage. play Nigerian women want their partners to engage in longer, better foreplay (Pulse) Sexual satisfaction For couples that in a sexual relationship, it has been firmly established that many women do not reach orgasm through penetration. Whether or not your partner falls within this category of women, proper foreplay for the right amount of time is sure to leave her satisfied, and a sexually satisfied woman is far better tha...

My Boyfriend’s Addiction To Pornography Has Made Him Lost Interest In Me – What Should I Do ?

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My boyfriend of six months has suddenly started showing interest in pom magazines, which he buys at secondhand bend-down stalls at bus-stops. He’s also into revolting pornography films and has lost interest in me. He is 27 and I’m 20 and it’s making argue all the time. I’ve refused to watch his stupid movie.

My Boyfriend’s Addiction To P0rnography Has Made Him Lost Interest In Me – What Should I Do ?

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Dear Admin, My boyfriend of six months has suddenly started showing interest in pom magazines, which he buys at secondhand bend-down stalls at bus-stops. He’s also into revolting pornography films and has lost interest in me. He is 27 and I’m 20 and it’s making argue all the time. I’ve refused to watch his stupid movie.

My Boyfriend’s Addiction To P0rnography Has Made Him Lost Interest In Me – What Should I Do ?

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Dear Admin, My boyfriend of six months has suddenly started showing interest in pom magazines, which he buys at secondhand bend-down stalls at bus-stops. He’s also into revolting pornography films and has lost interest in me. He is 27 and I’m 20 and it’s making argue all the time. I’ve refused to watch his stupid movie.

ATTENTION!!! NEW DISCOVERY: HOW TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION, WEAK ERECTION AND OTHER SEXUAL DYSFUNTIONS FOR NIGERIAN MEN HOME AND ABROAD

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Undoubtedly one of the more common of bedroom problems for men is a lack of ability to go the distance while making love. In fact up to 70 percent of men seek help in finding out how to last longer in bed. Figuring out the best places to look not to mention people to have faith in for straight answers is often a real challenge. Although it could well appear like it’s impossible to work it out, with an optimistic attitude and a little instruction you will be successful. Why not start beating this right now by using the powerful solution presented HERE to boost bedroom control. By using the Solution presented in this article you will: last longer & increase your staying power (take control over your sex life) avoid embarrassment (greater sex for you and your partner) learn what methods can be applied that same night. Premature Ejaculation is really a group of different sexual problems that can be solved using the solution presented HERE. discover the Solution that is scien...

Confession Of A Frustrated Lagos Based Housewife-“I Did This Since He Could Not Sexually Satisfy Me”

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                       I am Evelyn, a lagos Based housewife and I have a very special issue that needs to be dealt with urgently, it is about to ruin my marriage of over 8 years. I and my husband had a very beautiful life together, but that was until two years into our marriage, just after we had our first and only child.` Danny as I fondly call him had lost his job then and would not have me work, he said it was his duty to provide for his family and believed that our child would need all my attention. I used to be a marketer at one of the leading banks, while he worked with an oil firm but was retrenched due to certain unclear circumstances. The quest for a job took a toll on my husband because we had debts to offset, so many bills left unpaid. During that period, Danny will go out very early only to come back very late at night. The time spent however, did not reflect on our economic status. We were not begging but we coul...

8 Ways to Use Body Language to Build Trust

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Maintaining eye contact when someone is talking will help build trust because it shows genuine interest, but that’s hard to do if you keep glancing at your phone or scanning around the room. “Listen with your eyes,” says Paul Zak, PhD, author of  Trust Factor: The Science of Creating High Performance Companies . “It says, ‘I don’t want to look at emails—you’re important.’ Building stronger human ties makes it easier to trust people and know more about them.” Check out the  40+ most trusted brands in America in 2016 , from a new  Reader’s Digest  survey. You might only be crossing your arms and legs, say, because you’re cold, but that stance closes you off. “They’re unknowingly communicating something negative because they’ve positioned their body in a way that is a defense mechanism,” says Lisa Gueldenzoph Snyder, PhD, professor and chairperson of the department of business education at North Carolina A&T State University. “It blocks any basis for building ...

Here is what happens when you go to bed angry with your spouse

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Cast your mind back to when you were being taught to cross the road. Surely one of the first things you were told was to always look left, look right  and then look right and left again  before dashing across the road to the other side. Now, the way a traffic instructor would be quick to teach you that simple rule first, is the same way a marriage counsellor will ensure that one of the first things you are taught is how to never go to bed without resolving any issues with your partner. play The best approach to lover's fights is to reach an amicable resolution before going to bed (Youqueen) For ages and generations, the rule has been kept intact and passed down from one generation to another. But why do you have to force yourself to reach a resolution before you go to bed? ALSO READ:   American actor, Chris Pratt, says it's OK for lovers to go to bed angry According to the  Nature Communications Journal,  going to bed angrily will ruin ...

The 14 Best Things About Having a Boyfriend

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1. No more fumbley, weird "I don't even know what you like" first-time sex.  That's not to say that boyfriend sex is fool-proof but your odds of having someone accidentally pull your hair because their stupid elbow was on it go down by a lot.  2. He can not reply to your text and you won't go into a panic attack shame spiral wondering if he's ghosting.  You can say "he's probably just busy" and know for a fact that yes, that is why. It's like having an oxygen tank at all times.  3. You always have someone to zip up the back of your dress so you don't have to do that weird acrobatic arm thing.  Even if it is probably good for your deltoids or something. It still blows. 4. You always have someone to split food with for those days when you feel like ordering like a monster  but then remember you have a normal human stomach. And then on days when you somehow have a superhuman stomach… 5. You have twice the food always.  Oh what...

Why do most people cheat is it because they don't get enough sex

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Readers believe that sexual dissatisfaction is the most common reason why people cheat on their significant others. Why do people really cheat? Does it appeal to them to just intentionally mess up the feelings of others, or do some uncontrollable factors play a part too? In an article published on Pulse on October 12, 2016, readers were asked for their opinion on the most common reason why partners cheat on each other. play Disappointment in relationships also contributes to the problem (Daily Mail) Could it be because they are sexually dissatisfied, addicted to sex, due to neglect, or because they are just curious? ALSO READ:     Recognising the reasons behind cheating The result of the poll shows that majority [37.6%] of Pulse readers believe sexual dissatisfaction is the most common reason why people cheat on their partners. play Sexual dissatisfaction is the major reason why people cheat (Pulse) 24.4% believe another sex-related issue, Sex a...

Is it possible to actually forgive and forget?

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How true is the statement forgive and forget? Is it ever valid to ask someone to forget after forgiving? Relationships  always  come with couples' arguments, differences and lovers' fights. Naturally, this places a lot of importance on the partners' ability to forgive. Anyone who has not mastered the ability of letting go is surely not ready to be in a relationship and if such person decides to do so, he'll have to learn while in the relationship to forgive. Having established the need for the ability and willingness to forgive, what comes next is the issue of forgetting. play Forgiveness is key in every relationship (Pulse) It is often said, forgive and forget. Even legendary singer,  2Face , has a song with that title. Every Nigerian is used to the statement and people use it every time . However, is there actually a basis to it? Is the statement even valid? Can someone actually forgive and forget, especially a lover that has been hurt by their ...